4.The road ahead

Now the Lady is able to streamline  her day to-day schedule.With the help of her mind's guidance and encouragement  and sometimes in reversal she is able to plan to her capability. Now she has realized that instead of making some efforts to get help from her own family members to make her day a day, she let herself to be granted for everything. At one time  she feels so lonely and feels that her life seems to be having no values.
Now she is able to categorize what her needs are and how they can be fulfilled.
The wonderful Lady finds out that her MIND IS A ONE MAN ARMY.When she is ready to learn or  do something, her mind is always there to help her to bring the related resources.
The lady now decides to strengthen herself in three fields.
1.INTERNALLY.
   As she feels herself and her mind are within God's proximity there will be no need to fear or hesitation.She and her mind can  plan for a day's venture with  available resources in a relaxed manner.Because in their Kingdom they are the Queens and ministers and servants.She decides to complete minimum one task a day with the help of her friendly mind.
2.EXTERNALLY
    The Lady is very ready to seek or give any help to her beloved family members in recognize and be recognized way.Moreover she decides to speak out wherever she need to speak to establish her stand for the welfare of herself and for her family.She feels it would help herself to save  her self- respect and also it also avoids to let herself to be taken as granted for everyone and for everything in her family.That leads to help her to have some leisure and valuable time to rejuvenate herself.When suitable time comes she can help others to get themselves strengthened with her and her mind's available tactics and resources.
3.FINANCIALLY
   The lady feels this way.Using one's talent  outside home for financial comfort is one way of earning.Using one's talent inside home by saving money is another way of earning. Yes she is going to be a master in her sewing skill and she will be ready with her homemade dresses for herself and for her family members.She decides to teach this skill to any one who are interested by collecting reasonable fees.Even though there is no need for any more earning from her she wants to stand on her own feet.Even it is a single penny,when it comes from her own effort with the help of her mind it means her a lot.Here she put a dot for a venture.Her wonderful,friendly mind will drag the dot into a long line within the line there will be many more ventures.
Let God bless them to set their foot-print for the people who really want to be like them.

                                                           GOOD BYE FRIENDS

3.The stimulation of the mind

The following days the Lady feels some sort offull of  beans..Yet she and her mind  to arrive for some proper planning
LADY; Friend  it seems to take time for a proper planning.While planning we are not supposed to be stressed any more.
MIND; You are right. what shall we do?
LADY; We better relax first.Let us take one  task in the morning and one in the evening.First we shall try to get up as early as possible I mean before six or five forty five  or so.Early going birds get more food. For first one week we shall concentrate on our prayer i.e the six times prayer and that five minutes cleaning.
MIND: It seems better.
LADY: (She knows well that she can gear her mind up in such a way.So she decides to make it to feel as weather it is a big or small if we do it in a stress free,relaxed manner it will be an easy task.)
When the next day starts the lady is able to manage to cope with the time with the help of the mind.It is a wonderful feeling that the mind keeps remembering her the time of her prayer and her meals time by waking her up around six  in the morning.Even the lady decides to postpone something to sometime for the day her mind doesn't allow her to be so.
The family of the lady seems to be very comfortable with her wonderful briskness and it is inevitably contagious.The family with no other go have to co-operate with her with her some time management.For example, the lady says if you all are ready to have your meals together we ladies will lay the table.Otherwise you have to help yourself.Her family comprises of eight members.Her parents-in-law and two sonsOne  son is married and one grand child. Including her husband her two sons and daughter-in-law are in their different occupations.As their departure and arrival times are different their meal times are also invariably different.
But due to the constant pestering of her mind about the time management the whole family is tend to schedule their work on time.
The lady keeps pestering her family to keep the things in their place.It brings home some sort of automatic cleaning.
So for a day she with the help of her mind she is able to finish doing the day's tasks as six times prayer and five minutes cleaning  along with the her time management skill with her family as a bonus.
A RAY OF HOPE ENTERS WITHIN HER.

2.The first miracle

Lady: (Wondering how swift the mind is . I just suggested  that in the name of God  we shall start mending ourselves. I just put a dot but it  is very ready to join the dots to make  lines by saying we shall practice it. Hope  my good rapport with it will be more productive)
After one week  the mind comes back with all cheerfulness.
Lady: Hello friend, you are looking so beautiful. What is the matter?
Mind: Ha! Stop teasing me.I did some practice.What about you?
Lady: As you are always mentioning we are the two sides of the same coin, I also did some practice.
Mind: What next?
Lady: In my opinion,instead of  searching happiness outside we shall first try to find them within us. So what I'm trying to say is we shall try to minimize our weakness and maximize our strength by drawing a time table for a day. What is your opinion about this?(Lady knows even she utter it as just like some suggestions the mind is definitely very ready to put some efforts on it.i.e just show it a dot it will make it a line.i.e just because of its loyal nature it tries its best  to complete any assigned task in stipulated time.)
Mind: I'm ready.Go ahead.
Lady: You see, now a days we get up at seven in the morning.Let it be at six. We go to bed around eleven thirty.In the same way let it be at ten thirty. Then finish doing our morning prayers. i.e that six times prayer a day.Before break-fast we shall complete our third prayer.i.e as soon as we get up,after taking bath,before break-fast.By nine in the morning we shall do some five minutes cleaning i.e any part of our home.No doubt we get some sort of treasure.That is why it is said that cleanliness is Godliness. Before lunch fourth prayer. As we are home makers we can find some leisure hours in the after noon,As we have some knowledge in sewing, get a touch with it.i.e  minimum of thirty minutes to practice every day.Practice makes it a habit.Habit helps us to learn tactics.Learning leads us to be master to some extent.That master skill leads us to be confident.That confidence leads us to be courage.That confidence with courage help us to  face the things as they are.Next some readings.Not in a stipulated time. In a day we must read some positive matters.Minimum  a paragraph or in the form of  some quotes.Around six in the evening that fifth prayer. Before dinner  sixth prayer.Make sure in our diet we are having one glass milk, one or two kind of vegetables,with any kind of one fruit with regular intervals.Take sufficient water for our proper metabolic function.The prime need is we two must be healthy.Even though it seems to be a bit longer it seems to bring good to us.As we are working together within the God's proximity I feel that there will be no difficulties in implementing our everyday timetable. Friend,I have a strong feeling that YOU AND ME MAKE WE AND THAT BRINGS MIRACLES YOU SEE.
Mind: Excellent.We shall try our best.On your mark.Be ready.Here we goooooo.
The very next day the Lady surprises to see that it is possible for her to get up six in the morning even though she went to bed as usual at eleven thirty.She understands that her friendly mind starts working.She decides to cope with it very well.
Lady: Friend you seem to get into our project very well?
Mind:Of course.
Lady: First we shall finish doing the assigned project to our satisfaction,then we shall add one by one to our
capability.
Mind: I here and obey my honorable friend.
Lady: You naughty. I'm very proud of you.
Mind: Shhhhhh,no more talking get going.
Lady: It is now my turn to say I hear and obey my honorable friend.
Mind: Ha!ha!ha!






































  

1..Projected Project

Lady:(After having  a brief conversation with God  through messages she could feel something. i.e when we are within God's proximity  it seems to be easy to keep all negative feelings at bay. So she decides to have a word with the mind)

Lady:The next day morning she messages to the mind as "Are you there?

Mind: I am already at your doorstep.

Lady: ( Happily opens the door and greets her friendly mind cheerfully.) Good morning and good day friend please come in.

Mind: Thank you.How are you and how far is our project.

Lady: I am thinking about it.

Mind:Time is up.What we are going to do to-day?

Lady: My dear friend I think we better have some plans in advance.Because fail to plan is plan to fail you know.

Mind:O.k. go ahead.

Lady: We shall formulate our plans. First thing is I believe in God.Whether the God concept is true or false there is some supreme power under whose direct supervision the universe is. For me it is God. What about you?

Mind: I already told you my dear friend that we are the two sides of the same coin. You have introduced me a new world in the name of God.The pleased feeling makes me to believe in it.

Lady: Wonderful.Then the first thing is to feel your belief.As for as I'm concerned  I feel  my belief. So I practice to follow our religious faith.In our religion in a day six times worship with four hours interval  is mandatory. i.e 

1. Early morning worship at 4 A.M.

2. Morning worship at 8 A.M.

3. Mid-day worship at 12  noon

4. Evening worship at 4 P.M.

5. Night worship at 8 P.M

6. Mid night worship at 12

Even though we are not able to follow this with that  assigned time  I do this worship six times a day but in my own time with some modifications.i.e

First worship starts from as soon as I get up from the bed no matter what time it would be.

Second one after taking bath

Third one before break-fast

Fourth one before lunch.

Fifth one  around six in the evening.

Sixth one before dinner. Wherever I am I do follow this six times worship schedule with some adjustments.

So in the same manner will it be possible for you my friend?

Mind: certainly, my friend.

Lady: You know my friend whenever I visit our worship places which were built more than thousand years back I wonder about their mega  structure and  architecture. I feel that God had been moved and  did respect  the those era's people's intense feelings towards him.So He must have come with   his own helping hands to erect such a  wonderful man made  structures and architectures with  unknown technologies. What do you say.

Mind: Exactly.

Lady: By the way,I would like to suggest one more thing.i.e during these six times worship  we shall just feel these version along with our prayer.

Mind: Go ahead.

Lady: We must say no to

1. I can't,

2. I have no time, 

3. I forgot. Is it o.k. with you my friend?

Mind: I promise you .I always go with you.

The Lady knows that the mind is  so loyal,so with or without its knowledge it will try to follow  the suggestions put forward by the Lady

Lady: O.k friend from to-day you and me make WE. Will it be right with you my friend?
Mind: Absolutely.In the first place let us practice this for one week.Till then we shall remember each other by saying
No to
I can't
I have no time
I forgot.
O.k. Now we shall take leave. See you.
Lady;Great.

6. Recognize and be recognized

Lady:     (Messages to God)  My dear God Thank you so much for everything. As you told I have some negotiations with my Mind. First I  was afraid of It's present nature i.e how it would be. But my Lord by your mercy   it is on it's track. It seems to be friendly.God! I would like to know  whether  my way of negotiations  were alright?

 God:     Well done my child! Your positive approach has made your task easy. More over from your childhood your mind   is being made to feel about God and  His mercy through your  God loving and God fearing Parents. It has seems to have been observing something . It helps  it to be on its track with not  much difficulties.  So don't worry! Carry on!

Lady:     Thanks  God! Now I have a ray of hope.Thanks a lot.  Now  please help me how to pursue?

God:      Here are some tips for you to handle  and go with  your mind comfortably.

              1. Be relaxed.

              2. As I am always with you be positive.It helps you to generate your energy and enthusiasm.

               3. Help your mind to get relaxed thoroughly by patting its back like it's o.k manner whenever its go wrong and consult  it  how it can be made to be right. As it has  power like wind  from any where else it brings the solution for that related problems.

                4. Try to  engage in various  positive activities with regular intervals  especially in a relaxed manner. You know, An idle mind is Devil's Workshop. And more over rolling stones never get mosses.

                 5. As it is a globe trotter  as wind sometimes it happens to meet people who seem to negate your confidence, or some situations to drain your courage, confidence, and hope  then it may make things topsy- turvy.  At that times never loose your hope.Give time to it for recovery. Time heals everything. 

                 6.Whenever it does some good things whether it is small or big give it  genuine and generous compliments.

                 7.Help him to learn the value of time. In a day there are 86,400 seconds i.e 86,4oo rupees with us. Nearly one lake rupees. It can't be saved or lent or borrowed. So  use it efficiently. That is all for now. On the way of your travelling with your mind you can learn more and more with the help of your great mind. Get going my child. I bless you.

Lady:        Thanks Lord! I feel like flying high. I will try my best to help myself and  to my mind to be good on our task .  I shall take leave my Lord.  

              

5.Selective decision

  Some days later one early morning  there is a knock at the door of the lady.

Lady:   ( Surprises on seeing the mind.)  Oh my dear friend, Good Morning and Good day;

             Have a   warm welcome in my place

Mind:   Very Good Morning and Thank you; How do  you do?

Lady:   Fine, Thank you friend; What about you?

Mind    I feel good; Thank you.(after the formalities)

Lady:    (Hesitatingly) Friend! Is there any good news from your side?

Mind:     Of course! I have decided to go with you; As God Himself  has sent you to meet me , I am very glad to get into this Project; Yes I feel  this is a Project. A life time Project. What do you say?

Lady:     Exactly; Now friend!  What shall we do?

Mind:    Start!

Lady:    What?

Mind:    Yes , we shall start the Project. You see; When we want to be ahead we should get going. When we both  have moral support for each other, I feel we better start now itself; What do say?

Lady:    Very well then; I believe , when sincere and wholehearted persons  work together we shall take our task to success; I  promise  for that prominent qualities ; And  do you mind  If I ask the same from you?

Mind:    No problem! We are the same sides of the same coin. We shall rock  ourselves:

Lady:    ( Gleefully) Thanks friend; Thanks a lot;  I feel my energy and enthusiasm get  generated. (With overwhelming happiness)  Thank  God for introducing such a nice friend  to me.

Mind:      Stop exciting my friend! This project seems to need miles to go. No problem. Now tell me. Where shall we start?

Lady:    You know friend, Every thing starts from God; In the same way we shall start from God. What do you say?

Mind:    Certainly, But how?

Lady:    Believe God through You and Believe you through God.

Mind:    Excellent. I like it. I am going to enjoy this fun thoroughly with you my friend; Thank you so much this pleasant opportunity.  I would  like to thank God  personally. See you.

4.Meeting with the Mind

The Lady is so excited  to meet the Mind. As  God says If it is Mega power, in all these years  I have no idea  about its direction of travelling.  Moreover will it be easy for me  to  make it to cope with me in the constructive area. But  its message seems to be approachable. Whatever is the matter let God be in the front row. The lady feels so comfortable  when she feels to be with God.

The next day morning.The Lady is in Mind's place.

Lady:   My  dear Mind Very Good Morning and Very Good Day Friend. I  have been redirected by God to meet you to solve my problem. Could  you help me my dear friend. ( Here the Lady notices the Mind's   great  respectfulness towards God apparently.)


Mind:   Sure sure. I'm always by your side. Come out  with it !


Lady:   ( Becomes hopeful) My dear friend,  God says  I am the other part of  you and you are the other part of me  to make a task complete.(Here also the Lady notices the alertness of the Mind when it hears God's name. She thinks, this  impact of God 's name on mind may be due to its being made to utter God's name  right from its childhood,with or without its knowledge.)Well, my dear friend , I need to  lead a value based life. Like the body organs. Even though they are different in Size, Shape,Location and Function they all work together. When need arises they voluntarily help each other. Even though they get hurt purposely  or accidentally  they heal themselves with the help of  one another and try to function as normal as possible.  I mean  they lead a value based  life. Now could you Understand what my problem  is?  .(The Lady  really means her genuine longing of getting friendship  of her mind  by uttering friend at regular pace.)


Mind:    (Understanding  the Lady's real problem  and her genuine nature)  My dear friendly Lady in the name of God  definitely I will help you in whatever way I can. I promise you.  But  you see, I need some time to think about it. Will it be alright for you?


Lady:    By  all means my dear friend.  Thank you for your readiness to help me. See you.( Heaving a sigh of relief , she says   thank God! fortunately  the mind is ready to be with me under the same roof i.e under the God's roof by uttering your name.)

3.Message to the Mind

  My dear Mind,

                           Even though all these years you are within me,  I failed to recognize you. I am so so sorry.
Just now God helps me to find you. (The Lady notices that when mind hears  God's name it blinks). I would like to have a value based life. When I sought help from God, He said you are the right person to discuss all about this matter. (Again the Lady notices some alertness  in  mind) . So when can I get your appointment.

The Lady gets back a message as

    "    At any time. "                                                  

2.God's Message

God:    Hello my dear young lady (The lady is amused), whoever starts thinking that they need a value    based life, they will become young. Even though you are 52, you can do the job of a 25-year-old with life satisfaction. Do you know why? Because you have empowered yourself by choosing to have a value based life. Go ahead. I will guide you.   

       

By the way you must know that every problem has its own solution 

Lady:     (Exhilarating) Thanks God. Thank you for your mercy, for answering my prayer. My lord, now what am I to do?

God:      Well, to have value-based life, you need some power with values. Do you know the open secret to get that power? That mega-power is within you - your mind. It has the power similar to wind. Like wind, it can travel to every nook and corner of the universe. It is loyal, loyal to the core. But the problem is, it does not know what is good and bad. Depending on the direction that you show it, it would be either constructive or destructive.

Discoveries and Inventions for human welfare are the examples for construction. Ruining human welfare through various degrading activities are the example for destruction. So you better negotiate your mega-powered mind. When everything goes well, you both can guide each other.

 You and your mind, the two good powers together can construct a lot forever.

Lady:   Thanks again my lord! I will never forget your great, grand help. Whenever I need help, I will come to you.

God:     Sure! Sure my child!

           
     

1.God's Zone

One day in heaven..
(God speaking to his Personal Asssistant)

God : Is there any new appointment today?

PA: What to say my Lord? There is a request from an old woman to seek an appointment with you.

God : Then it must be inetersting. Go ahead.

PA: My lord! Here is a message. It goes like this.

       "My dear God, I'm blessed with all by your grace. Thanks a lot. But you see, just like no job satisfaction        there is no life satisfaction. I want some value-based life. As you are the almighty, I hope there is no problem in understanding my problem. I want to talk about this with you. Please grant me an appointment."

God : very interesting. Ok Mr. PA. Send this message to her : "I'M AVAILABLE AT ANY TIME"

(To be continued)