Co-Operation

 Indeed there must be a will

No doubt there will be a way still


 Do you want to know for what?

Nothing else.Just to co-operate.


Co-operation commences from home,

And it begins with our Dad and Mom.


They are seniors to us,sure,

More than 25 years.It is true.


So let us respect them for their age,

That experienced age placed them in good image.


Respect means co-operation.Let us just do it.

Then let us respect our siblings,through love in it.


For our elder siblings,let our love bend our head.

for our younger,let the same raise both our heads.


No disgrace to kids in and out,

Which is the initial stride to reach out.


Boy or Girl, just let us take them up,

When they deserve with values to come up.


Let us never bias with Gender,

No doubts,it leads to a big disaster.


Let us get related to our relatives,

For very good alternatives.


Let our place be a good harbor,

For the sailing ships of our neighbors.



Remember always, we are the part of the society,

So let us together to bring some goodness in it.It is so easy.
 


Let our governing body be wise with moral education,

This is the need of the hour.Let us analyze it before every election.


Let our Government govern us with all courtesy,

And let us co-operate with it with less protest and more patriotism.



These are all some signs of co-operation,

To bring the goodness in the Harmony operation. 

Decisions to Discipline

   To-day is the beginning of the first term exam holidays.I am in standard Nine.I am below very average student.I  am one of the students who have been coming under that category,i.e. just pass category where students like us are for mere enrollment of numbers in the class and our presence or absence doesn't make any impact in the class room activities.

   On the other hand,as I am belonging to middle class family and my parents bothering finds no bounds." Unless we children are ready to lean on the work hard side,it is obvious that their financial conditions never allow them to take any effort to make us pursue our studies ".This is the version that have been reminder for me for umpteen times.As I never open my ears to this version which in turn, my mind is also not directed to open.

   As usual the school reopened.I was not serious with the marks I got.On the evening of the same day,there was a circular from principal office that there would be combine class for the students from standard nine and from standard eleven.That  circular gave us no idea.Usually,combined classes would be taken for the different sections of the same class.But this seemed to be different.

   We were asked to assemble in the hall which is adjacent to the principal room.There also,even we inquired our seniors whether they had any idea about the combine class,they obviously had no clue at all.After ten minutes or so,our principal entered into the room and we got up with our true respect,as this Principal is a person who have a real concern with students' welfare.

   The Principal with his crystal clear voice,"Students! I won't take much of your precious time.Only for few minutes,I ask you to be serious to lend your ears.Depending on your seriousness on the matter,you will make up your mind to observe the intensity of the matter which in turn directs your brain to do the needful.So here,
the proper passing on the matter is very important.Hence I expect your 100%attention".

   He gave a pause,where he expected us to collect all our ears to him.After a pause he continued with the same crystal clear voice,"I went through your first term marks.Except a handful of students in ninth and eleventh form really have no idea about their present position which is not good.Not good at all.I want to clear one thing,If you people are not able stand in the first two ranks in your limited strength of the class means, imagine what would be your position in the higher studies level where your circle would be bigger so as your competitive level"

   We turned to each other.Something pricked our minds.The Principal,"You may wonder,why I have made to assemble all the sections of two different classes.i.e. Nine and Eleven.Because these  two classes are tend to be your turning point.This stage is the crucial basic learning stage.If you understand the basic concept of
every subject with proper mindset,you will survive in your future world where it is designed by the concept "Survival of the fittest "with the tremendous technological development.Almost all national competitive exams based on the basic concept which are at preset in standard nine and standard eleven.These basic concepts which may lead to various inventions and discoveries in future.So please understand that unless you don't understand these basic concepts you will find no road to go ahead.i.e.you will be powerless.You will not be able to secure a powerful spectacular carrier.With the present opportunities to get good education,it would be easy and valued to land on any field based on merit.So, now the ball is in your court to decide whether you want to survive in this highly sophisticated competitive structure or to vanish in the thin air".He looked around the whole class and wished us " Good Luck " and off the hall.

  There was a silence.Utter silence.Slowly one by one we were also off the hall.The Principal indeed gave us a stern warning.I decided to survive.A value based survival only has its meaning.I had no idea about my own ability.And I had no idea how long the present spirit which has been supplied by our respectful Principal would survive.But before this spirit gets drained I have to save it.I have to save it for ever.For that I have to plan now.

   At home,my silence brought some awkwardness to my parents.After dinner I as usual went to bed.In the first place,I decided to draw some plans.Then I decided to bring a good discipline to my plans.i.e. to my decisions.After some self analysis and calculating the pros and cons of my plans,I resorted to this sort of decisions with my stringent methods of discipline.

1.Total faith on God.

2.Be positive.

A strong belief that as I am being with God,He is always there to help me whenever I need any sort of help.So I can make things possible.

3. Recognize and berecognized.

When my mind goes in the direction where it is directed which brings good result means,I should appreciate it.i.e.I should give compliments to myself and at the same time I should never fail to give my profuse thanks to God.If it goes wrong,I should nip in the bud with the help of God.For this also I should never fail to give my profuse thanks to God who is definitely going to help me in mending  my way on my every stride.

4.Time management.

To assume an approximate time for every task to bring a good intensity in my concentration.

5.Cleaning.

I must clean my mind on regular basis with the help of God  by doing some internal and external exercises to build a sound body and sound mind to eliminate any sort of unwanted thoughts.It is a known fact that a sound body and sound mind are interrelated and each in turn help each other to make things possible. A crystal clear mind with a good fit body has more power to absorb.I observed.

   How true!that " A well begun is half done" version.I could feel that gradual building up of my confidence in me.Definitely I will Let it grow.

           

WARM WORDS OR WAR OF WORDS

  A.   Analyze yourself whether  you are a person with warm words or a person with war of words. Because it is a known fact that warmth brings warmth and war brings war.

  B.     Begin your day with words which should always must start with a lower pitch with all  living things and non-living things.i.e no shouting and no dragging.

  C.     Cleaning helps us to find our lost treasure.So clean up your mind with spiritual thoughts or some positive thoughts or with some happy moments.Garbage always brings bad odour which in turn lead to war of words.Every one hour check the state of your mind and you can find out that a smooth replacement would be on its process.Never forget it to practice it for minimum one week. Then the powerful and loyal mind would understand its role and it starts look into the matter.i.e it always reminds you to be with warm words with all living and non-living things.

   D.    Do something productively for every half-an-hour no matter whether it is five minutes project or five seconds project and no matter whether you are in your working place or at your home sweet home. Example:Reminding your friends about the important office meeting or birth day parties of your family personalities or your colleague or your friends or collect the forgotten details which your boss asked you to submit as early as possible or try to find some solutions for some official problems or for some family problems which need your immediate attention.

           .i.e Your mind would be with full of beans. Remember" The idle mind is devil's workshop".In this process you do give importance to the persons at home as well as in your working place which in turn you will be in the good books of many persons which would bring you a feeling of safe and security.  Hence no rooms for war of words.

     E.    Eat properly.Make sure whether your every meals in a day is a nutritious one with vegetables and fruits and with sufficient water.High nutritious meals have a good rapport with warm words.

     F.     Find some space and time for your visit to your own specialized area everyday.Ten minutes visit every day is far more better than one hour visit in a week.Practice in your specialized area brings warm words of appreciation and encouragement and they help you to build your confidence.No place and time for war of words.

     G.    God is omnipresent and omnipotent.Believe in God.He never fails to answer a faithful prayer.So pray to him to monitor your every day schedule.Then it is His responsibility to make your day with an atmosphere which would bring warm words not with war of words.The only thing you have to do is deserve His monitor.

     H.    Hot drinks always create war of words.

     I.     Itching leads war of words.Let bygones be bygones.No more itching

     J.     Jolly going avoids war of words.It can be done only by  regular practice.Make sure  nothing is wrong from your side.Then make things as simple as possible by saying" for this prevailing atmosphere it seems good to me.If you have different opinion you try for it".Just leave the matter to take its own course.Simplicity always being in the first row pushing the complications back.

    K.     King you are! Assume you are the King of your own territory.So naturally your interaction with the King of other territory would be as smart as possible.Even if you assume others as subjects of yours no problem.A good king's first duty is the  welfare if his subjects.So only warm words have to be placed there.

     L.     Listening is the best tool to generate warm words.Honestly speaking, no one is ready to lend their ears to anyone else but they desperately expect others to lend their ears to oneself.This suppresses the warm words to a great extent and lead to war of words.So with real interest and with real editing capability try to show some real concern to your close circle with their day-to-day activities.This naturally brings warms words.

    M.     Mind  the Gratitude always.Recognize the timely help whether it was big or small it was the help that came in time.Recognize the respective persons  with real concern.It gives room only to warm  words.

     N.      No to  telling tales and keep the Gossip mongers at an arm distance.This is the healthy way to avoid war of words.

     O.      One man army is the best policy.It means you are a reliable personality with all soft skills.So no chance to war of words.Chances are there for warm words only.

      P.      Positive approach always brings warm words.

      Q.     Quick observation of the situation helps us to avoid war of words.When we  are the person in a particular situation, to call a spade a spade, never hesitate to act so.This avoids war of words later.

      R.       Refresh yourself everyday with some mental and physical exercises.They will help you to get some control to avoid war of words.

      S.        Silence brings no regrets.Be wise enough to know when to be silent to avoid war of words.

      T.        Travelling is the best Mentor to teach us how blessed we are in one way or the other.So it leads us to thank God one way or the other forever which eliminates our war of words nature and helps us to resort to generate warm words.

      U.        Under estimation and over confidence are always dangerous.Try to understand many things are not as they seem.Our ignorance may lead to war of words.So be sensible to sense the power of any individual within our circle to avoid war of words.

       V.       Victory starts with warm words which help to build a good rapport with our respective field.

      W.        Winning throughout our life is so simple unless you are ready to kick back your Ego.When conflict is over,stand aside as a third person and analyse yourself genuinely.If your conscience pricks you that you are wrong, never never never hesitate to say the magic word "Sorry" genuinely.It brings miracles of hale and healthy warm words which helps us to shut the door of war of words.

      X.         Xchange Your good ideas with good intentions with your reliable circle.This healthy bond always generates warm words

      Y.         Yet  do we have another chance of birth with same relatives?No chance at all.So try to preserve the present relations with warm heart which are the birth place of the warm words.

      Z.          Zoooooooooooooom! This is the result of the warm words for a jolly ride throughout our life.

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Be positive

The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to to overlook.

Do it Now

Be diligent,don't wait;
Waiting is a trap; there will always be reasons to wait.
The truth is there are two things in life
reasons and results; and reasons simply don't count.

The secret of getting ahead is getting started.

Be a Do-it-now person.

Get up... Get going... Take control.