Tuesday, September 10, 2013

BOND-COUSIN BOND


   Aravind was in his office.Evening session some meeting.Meetings are always having their own name under various heading but actually it seemed to be not a meeting but definitely a parting of one's energy' effort and time.After every meeting, Aravind had to do his best in bringing all his energy back to match the atmosphere  is really a Herculean task.

   Aravind had a severe head ache.The reason for this might be he replaced his actual lunch( with vegetables and curd) with some sort of snacks and with some cool drinks.His every meals like this seemed to be a mismatching with his growling stomach.But he had no time to think about all these nonsense.Yes, keeping a good rapport with meals is a utter nonsense for people like Aravind.

  He liked to have some coffee.At the same time he felt  a bit terrified.Because his parents were looking for a girl to make their son to win the made for each other competition.They seemed to be not bothering about their son's physical and mental health who was 1000 miles away from them.

   They were not only satisfied  with their bloated bank balance but also with the bloating of their real heads.(Here curtsy to their beloved son who earned a fruitful job with naturally handsome salary). They felt that their only duty was to look for another bloating girl I mean the girl must get bloated only with currency note from a bloating family with the same help of currency note to match their prince son's all pride.

   Aravind,after knowing his parents efforts,his worry was up on a tall tree.If he was not able to balance his work pressure with his family pleasure........Thinking itself brought some sort of giddiness to him.Now he preferred some good chat over coffee with some cheerful souls.He made a call to his one of the sensible cousins Kid.This 27 years old Kid seemed to be always  a kid.With that cheerful voice always had a capability to make things as simple as possible.In fact he was also  in a stress generating job.

   Aravind,"Hello Kid,as a kid I know you are doing well.For my sake could you spare some time for me".

   "Sparing".This is Kid.He could make any one to feel that the one himself a V.I.P

  " As usual I am not in myself.It seems as some symptoms  for some break downs.I have no strength to analyse it.Could you please share some Boost with me?please!".

   "why not?sharing.By the way, meet my paternal cousin who is from his on sight to our sight now".(It means, he returned to his mother land after successfully completing his Company'd Project in its foreign location.)You don't mind his name.Call him as Trist I mean Psychiatrist.But he is not a professional psychiatrist.But he has the ability to find out the root cause for any problem.In his opinion,if the real cause for any problem could be brought out, the solution for the problem would be an easy one. Would you like to have some chat with him?".

   "Er" a bit of pause from Aravind then he quickly on his track,"If it is all right with him I am also ready to be on his line".

    "He is an ever ready personality.Here you go.If it is all right with you, let him be in my shoes.Enjoy".

   Next moment,"Hello"a voice on the line which seemed to be very casual."Hello",Aravind continued as casual as possible,"I am Aravind"

    Chuckling voice "I know Mr Aravind. Kid told me.I am Alok. If you are comfortable with my professional name Trist,call by the same.By the way,If you are ready to take it in the right sense,I would like to say something.i.e.from your voice, I think you are always a hitting against something else or some one else personality it seems.I mean, no rest to your mind.Keeps on dashing with something..Am I correct".

   Aravind was dumbstruck."What is he saying?.Is it possible to judge a person just by a call or is he joking".

   " Hello are you there Mr.Aravind. Take it easy.Just say yes or no".Trist persuaded him with some enthusiastic voice.

   Aravind trying to be present in the present"Yes! Mr Trist ,sort of feelings like that.I think, my very often head-aches may be the symptoms for it."

   Pleased voice continued on the other side."I am very pleased with your exact and earlier identification.This is the first step of our positive effort to bring a good rapport between our mind and body.By the by why don,t we people now becoming friends drop that unnecessary word "Mr".

    "Why not?. Aravind was so comfortable with this unknown person.Taking some privilege and with some interest, Aravind asked,"Is there any remedy for it Trist?"

   "Don't treat it as remedy.Just a replacement.First step is, stop hitting against anything else.I mean,not to think of the same thing again and again.Even after your precautions if you get hit means stop there.Analyse what is the reason for this frequent collision.Mostly the reason would be the negative one.Like,your ignorance on something else,or your inability to say NO to certain things which really need a perfect NO or your inability to cope with your superiors or your inability to get your subordinates to cope with you and so on".After a pause,"Are you listening Aravind?".A doubt in Trist voice could be sensed.

   "By all means Trist. What ever you  say it seems to be so matching with me.I very badly want to know how to handle them.Please go ahead with your replacement tactics Trist."Aravind with all his ears.

   "Very simple.Give individual attention to the persons  with whom you have very often collision either in your working place or in your family. Analyzing their level with your level, give priority to respect or concern with good heart  and put forward your suggestion clearly to replace the problem which may lead some sort of production.To make yourself strong, you must get rid of your ignorance.So replace the ignorance with the relevant knowledge.So explore.Is it seemed to be an exhausting process Aravind".Asked Trist with some giggles.

   "Not at all.Not at all.It is quite interesting. No intermission please!".Trist seemed to be so pleased.For a positive task a good co-operation is a prime ingredient.He continued "In this process we can avoid or dodge so many unnecessary collision in the process of exploring the things we need".

   " It seems sensible".agreed Aravind.

   "Once we start getting the things we need, our self confidence is on its rise.We can face the things as they come as ever ready person.i.e In course of time we would have some planning strategy which would be followed by a good time management skill which would replace pressure with pleasure not only in our prestigious working place and also in our beloved family circle.What do you say my friend?.

   "What to say Dude?You have been helping me to get into your great replacement project.What I feel now is to revive the bond with our own some sensible cousins, seems to be meaningful.As we cousins both paternal and maternal we have some common familiar background which would help us in this replacement project.This is the need of the hour I feel.As a cousin Kid helped me a lot through his cousin through some confidential process.I liked it.Thank you very much Trist. Thanks a lot".Trist could sense Aravind's melting voice.

    Then in a sudden mocking voice and with all mocking respect,Aravind put forward his words."Hello!is this Dr. Trist's clinic?.Can I get an appointment with Dr.Trist?It would be better if I can get an appointment after 8 in the evening for only one hour for a good dinner in a three star hotel.This is the fee I am going to pay for him.If he brings his apprentice Dr Kid who referred him for me,I will be so grateful.Please! try to make it possible friend".

    "DONE" Trist voice bellowed with good laughter.

 

 











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