BOND

" Bond itself expresses its cozy warm

Where every one's role is on its roam.

To elaborate its strength and security,

It is good to be one to feel its fraternity ".


  The other name for family is BONDING.If everyone of the family members wants to live in a cozy atmosphere,then definitely the  need of the hour is to feel their respective relations genuinely.Because


Feelings lead to humble recognitions;

Humble recognitions lead a fine and shine path;

Fine and shine paths lead to open our hearts;

Open hearts lead to recognize our current roles;

The current roles lead to our respective responsibilities;

Respective responsibilities bring people together;

People together lead to that spectacular caring and sharing;

Caring and sharing lead to bonds in all directions;

Bonds in all directions lead us to all sort of " S " and " S ";

It means " Strengths " and " Securities ".That means,

" All is well with all " to strengthen this " Cozy Bond ".


   Cozy bond is very expressive by our body language.Body language is absolutely vivid when it is
compared with its oral language.So one doesn't need to take any extra efforts to express one's respective love to the respective relations.Just feel the respective relations.Feel to the core.Then BONDS forms gradually,steadily and get strengthened automatically.As usual the first place to start to form this lovely bond is, no doubt our home;our " Sweet Home ".

Owe To Each Other

   In one way or the other we are in a position to owe to each other either directly or indirectly.But many times,we take many things granted,and comfortably forget the act of giving back happily in the same way or the possible,available way.This attitude is totally wrong and it leads to shrink our boundaries where a good
rapport among any sort of relationship surely get deteriorated.Deteriorating relationship is dangerous where
" Need in Indeed " act and fact would vanish in the thin air.Then everyone get isolated and the unwanted guest " Depression " would lead a permanent " Agony " in the life of every individual.

    To understand the concept " We Tend to Owe to Each Other " we shall go through the following parable.
In a village where there was no electricity.Every family in that village were using only earthen lamps as lights
to brighten their house after the Sun set.Usually in the villages,every house has a open front yard for various purposes.

   The front yard of one such house had been used by an alms seeker for quite a long time to have his meals and to sleep.The owner of that house was also quite generous as that of the whole village.So every night before the bedtime they had been waiting for the alms seeker to have his meals and to make his bed.It means they never closed the front door before the man settle down.It means, they had been helping the man to have the same light from the earthen lamp from their house to finish his cores.

     The time came for the alms seeker to leave this world to reach God's abode.He was waiting in front of the God along with the others to know his next project and the instructions from the God  for the related project.His turn came.God said," My dear friend!I am quite pleased to see you again after completing your assigned project successfully without giving any sort of wounds to any one else.I bless you.Here is your next project.i.e.Thanks giving project ".The man was with all his ears.The God continued, " As being an alms seeker in your previous incarnation and as you had been getting some place and light for your cores from that particular family in that village,I think now it is the time for you to pay back them ". The man was still in keen attention.

   " You may wonder how to pay back them? I will tell you.They have their own farm land.As the house owner became so old and their sons are far away from their home town on their occupation purpose,the owner of the land finds it difficult to find a servant to govern his far away farm land.And you are the person to guard that farm land as an invisible creature".

   The man happily accepted the God's project and came back to this world to pursue his duty as a thanks-
giving gesture.One day while he was on his duty,he happened to hear a boiling conversation between a father and his son.They seemed to be working in a family for three generations to govern their farm land belonged to some other village .The invisible man with all his curiosity  lent his ears to them.

   Father,"Son! It is totally unfair! We have been working for this kind and good family for three generations.They have a good faith on us.So, as usual, they have sent us to market their huge harvested grains.For their generosity they have got good money for their good grains.If you want to lay your hand on this money,it would be sin forever for our whole family.I never allow you to do this evil thing at any cost ". Son, " My dear father ! I think you are unnecessarily worrying about all this simple matter.If we take a part of money for our well being from this huge amount how come they know? In fact we deserve to have a bit more as we have been working for them for three generations.So stop worrying and start acting as a clever man ".But his father was not at all ready to go against his good master.

    At that time the arguing father and the adamant son could hear a chuckling.They looked for the person
all around.Nobody was there.They got bewildered.Again the same voice continued." Friends! Don't get scared.If you are kind enough, please lend your ears to me to tell my story ". He narrated his story and finally finished saying," As I utilized the house owner's open front yard and the light from his earthen lamp,the God assigned me the job to govern his farm land in an invisible manner, as a gesture of gratitude .If so, I am afraid to think about your next project that is going to be assigned by the God for your ingratitude to your kind master ".

  So it is the time for us to think about ourselves.We tend to owe each other for umpteen times for umpteen good reasons.So let us start it with our parents,our siblings,our education,our teachers and mentors,our life-partners,our business partners,our children,our relatives,our friends,our neighbors,our location,our carrier,our society,our nation and so on.We shall honor this owing to each other gesture throughout our life in a graceful manner.


   

13.The Five Elements.

The five elements are very intimate indeed,

As our five fingers' natural intimacy in deed.

Even they have their own special features,

They never take them to their head at any atmosphere.


Friends' prospect is " Here I am " prospect,

That is evident with their integral respect.

Their nature differ with the change of monsoon,

But they come hand in hand in freak season.


For example; When the Earth is dry and thirsty,

The Sky showers its love through heavy rainy.

When this heavy rains cross their boundaries,

The quick Wind and the Sun come to dry lands.


As the dry lands starts burning with high flames,

Again the Sky showers to rescue the land with no more blame.

If the flames are in real need but show no enthusiasm,

The Wind comes to help with its gradual speed as,"Here I am".


If the Wind crosses its limit with no knowledge,

Again the Sky sends the Sun with its cozy sunshine.

The Sky always does the dual role for the sake of its friends.

To cool through shower and warm through sunshine.


As these five Elements,our five fingers also act so,

It is the time for us to start learning their integration also.

Through these five Elements and through our five fingers,

We have to learn a lot as we have miles to go to mingle all.


First we shall start it with our family members;

For that we shall sort out our family members;

Then make sure that the family is an integral part,

And act for a blessed family through honor our part.


The beautiful long journey with these Five Elements,

I am sure they have helped us in learning many filaments.

We shall say happy Good Bye to these Five Elements,

With our heart-fill lot and lot of " EVER GREEN THANKS ".





                                CONCLUDED.

12.The Five Elements

 This fifth element with the first element,

i.e It goes with the earth hand in hand.

In protecting the intermediate features,

For the welfare of the all worldly creatures.


The shining Moon with the twinkling stars,

Enhance this element's beauty in the dark. 

They take the world to different region,

Which is left to one's own imagination.


The shining moon and the twinkling stars,

Help us to have a good night sleep to its core.

And pave the way for the next day bright ,

Which is the glittering face of the Sun of white.


This element teaches us the life philosophy,

With its alternative dark and bright literally.

It indirectly teaches us " Always be with 'C' and 'P';

I.e Be with Confidence and Patience for a good reap.



This element's heart is very generous indeed,

Through its whole blanket coverage we d

Even the other four elements feel very cozy,

Under this fifth element's excellent security.


The very understanding among these five elements,

Is an excellent living example for all human beings.

Their timely dependence, timely independence and

Timely interdependence,fix the things with no damage.


What are their timely wonderful adjustments?

We shall enjoy learning in the next chapter.




                                                To be continued..........
                                        

11. The Five Elements.

The fifth element the Sky is vast indeed,

Where its entire feature leads many seeds.

It has paved and paves many ways to lead,

For many kind of researches for human need.

It's vast palace is decorated in multi colors,

With so many varied things with their own valours. 

This element's internal and external structures,

Ah! what to say about its amazing features.


When it meditates it shows an even sky blue,

From which we have to learn the serenity too.

It sends its messengers of different clouds as clue,

To its colleagues, the other four elements as cue.


The voyage of the white clouds with their own beauty,

Which keep changing their size and shape in the same beauty. 

Make us to brush our sweet memories of naughty,

That is the best time to bridge our relations too catchy.


The black clouds indeed have good nature,

Which always take care of human feature.

With their full bags of basic life water,

To make this world a wonderful place of cater.


Still more amazing features are on many researches,

To know about this element's wonderful features.

But whatever they are, we shall continue our journey,

 In enjoying this element's beauty in the next chapter.






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10.The Five Elements.

As a Globetrotter this element is very good,

At storing of vast Knowledge in its head.

So with good acquaintance with this element,

We can learn a lot about all filaments.

As it fills each nook and corner with no difference,

It is sure it shows no bias based on any reference.

Hence, it is quite approachable to enhance our shrewdness,

But it never allows any sort of selfishness.

This element's basic teaching is " Be as one ".

To make this world  a big pleased fun of shine.

" Always be ready to work under one roof " 

Which is its strong message, meant in brief.

When we ready to cope with its means of message,

This element too be ready with its gentle breeze.

If we show our ugly face to exploit it in any way,

This element never hesitates to throw us away.

As other elements,its hierarchy of anger is unbearable,

To make our deeds good and bearable.

So with a real promise for the same to this element,

We shall " Air " our good bye to this " Air Element ".

                                        Next

 We shall meet the fifth element which is very high,

And this element's name is the beautiful " The sky ".

It has many wonders in its vast place,

With its permission we shall visit its palace.

                               Ah............

                               The beauty of the palace,

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9.The Five Elements.

This fourth element is named as the " Air ",

Which makes its presence everywhere.

With its absence no one can survive,

As it plays the role of foundation in every life.

Air is known as the mixture of many gases,

To match the life of things of their choices.

This element is blessed as Globetrotter,

Which resembles our mind in many factors. 

The Air has many fascinating works as wind,

In producing sounds of musics to please the mind.

It plays with different musical instruments,

To bring different music as good entertainments.

As wind it produces Electric current as wind energy,

As wind it produces all sorts of sound energy

As wind it makes the life hale and healthy,

As wind it shows its different hierarchy.


The smart strides of this element are impressive,

Where as the strong strides make our grip elusive.

It's tactic talent is a fact to be observed always,

To learn to bring prosper within us in many ways.

We shall learn them in the coming chapter,

So, let us be in this process as good partners.

With good passion and patience,we shall wait,

To see the all the sides of this element which,

                                                                  is to be continued...........