The Power-The Women Power.Part-IX

   That  particular day,the day which was going to create a spectacular 'Meeting Point',for fifty members from fifty families of that particular locality in a positive powered vibrating point.i.e from Bindhu's point. It helps every woman member of that fifty families to begin to recognize herself as powerful resource and how this powerful resource was going to be made to fly in all directions to disseminate the knowledge of ever woman's positive power.

   It was three forty two. Bindhu,Clara and Mary did expect minimum twenty to twenty five members.The three ladies made some interiors at Bindhu's drawing room posing with different colors,sizes and shapes of different flowers.Flowers are the true hosts to welcome the people with no fake hospitality. Bindhu's terrace was made to be a temporary roof garden with some chairs and tables and with one or two colorful big mats to bring a pleasant atmosphere for the members to have their evening coffee with some snacks in the gentle breeze.Coffee and snacks for about thirty members had been arranged from a nearby good restaurant.The restaurant had been asked to supply more coffee and snacks if need arise.

    The three ladies seemed to be very excited when they received their first four members at three fifty.Then gradually the count was on its rise.At four five,forty members arrived. Bindhu felt the intensity of her responsibility on its rise, as the members started pouring in.When she asked the members whether she could start the meeting,she was asked to wait for another ten minutes.At four fifteen nearly seventy members had made their count.Their excitement and enthusiasm made Bindhu to remind God very often to guide her to take this session in the right direction.She had some gut feeling that God had been guiding her from the dawn of that particular day.

    At four fifteen,the front door was closed. Bindhu,looked for Clara and Mary.Their thumbs up sign brought the message that extra coffee and snacks had been arranged by a phone call and extra seating arrangements had been made at the roof top garden.

    Bindhu examined the members whether they were settled comfortably.Then she addressed the gathering with her clear,cheerful and confident voice."Friends! I and my intimate friends are very very happy to extend our hearty welcome to you all.By the way meet my friends who are the prime part of this venture,Mrs.Clara Victor and her Mother-in law,Mrs Mary Alphonse.Many eye-brows of the visitors raised with disbelief when they sensed their intimacy..It is very sad indeed that a relationship between a Mother -in-law and Daughter-in-law has been taken as an eighth wonder in this present scenario.This relation hasn't been even tried by the both sides in many cases to bring its elegance to make it as a natural phenomena.Definitely, two hands have to come together to clap to make people to turn around to notice this lovely relationship.One hand's effort doesn't hold any water indeed.

   Bindhu started taking the visitors to their own new fantastic world which could be made by themselves. When they were ready to know about themselves on the basis of Abraham Linkan's Doctrine in modified form as 'of the women by the women for the women',Then there would be no looking back.With her clear,audible mesmerizing voice,Bindhu entered that wonderful world as the first person,"Friends,Once again a very warm welcome to you all.I and my close friends are pleased to invite you to discover our new fantastic world through which we are going to make many discoveries and inventions.We are going to put forward some suggestions through which we can implement our positive potential energy into kinetic energy. I mean the stored  positive power within us, without our knowledge, will be made to get implemented through our various available resources to earn our own internal, external and financial power. .In fact the knowledge about this power has been brought out by one of my best friend Mrs Clara Victor".

   Bindhu redirected the eyes of  the visitors to Clara's direction. Bindhu continued," In fact there is no need for her to be here to help us to explore that beautiful world.Because she is a blessed child who belongs to the place where the place has been blessed with everything by the grace of God.You people may heard about that reputed Company,"Bindhu mentioned the name of Victor' Company which has earned a name and fame in its own nation as well as abroad.Ah! Ah!Yes!Yes!" was  the reaction from various side of the visitors.They looked at Clara and Mary with all respect.

   Observing that good respect emerged for Clara's family,Bindhu's confidence had been taken to next level.It is true that any sort of venture which would be commenced by a name and fame owned personality for the welfare of the any group of this society it would lay path for easy implementation. Bindhu got back the attention of the visitors after some seconds,she was on her line."So, my humble request is grab this moment.Grab this opportunity.You may wonder which wonder I am talking about.I will come to the point.
Together we can set our feet almost all field for an internal,external and financial welfare and security for ourselves and for our children and for our family.But do register this in your mind that it will be possible only when we are ready to stride forward together.i.e we must associate with each other by forming a concrete stable bond".

   Bindhu observed the gathering.She felt a ray of hope.She kept taking them to that pleasant world of 'Union is Strength' world."Next, when we think about our part, some are home makers and some are belonging to the working class.But I would like to clear one thing that beyond these household chores and our office work we can achieve a lot when we are ready to be together to stride forward.i.e our every talent can be transferred into good money and high self-esteem".More over, more chances are there that we all women members from these fifty families can make ourselves to create a positive powered atmosphere through a good caring and sharing policy. Bindhu's persistence on the 'union' and her insistence in 'its strength' started penetrating the mind of the  group present there,with her efficient approach.

   The meeting was going on with an admirable level after level. Bindhu was very conscious to build confidence in them in each level with possible statistics.She continued,",I will list out our various talents through which we can make so many positive things possible through which we can derive a stable income which would be definitely on its ascending order to enhance our self esteem".Yes!as long as we are being together these two important factors are guaranteed.


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The Power-The Women Power.Part VIII

   The discussions over the family Queens' project took a shape through various sorts of analysis from different angles by the two family members as a whole.All as a whole seemed to be satisfied with this project.As an experimental session Bindhu expressed her wish to meet her locality residents first to know about their willingness to be part of this project.It was approved.

   Bindhu designed a form in the following model:

Name:

Family Member's age/Occupation:

Family members' Specialized zone: 

No:of children/male/female/age/Specialized zone:

House:Own/Rented/Independent/Apartment/Area in Sq.meters:

Location of the residence:

Distance from your present place to your native village in K.M.:

   Then she visited nearly fifty houses of her residential area around seven in the evening.She did expect the presence of whole family at that time which can make her task easier.Warm welcome was waiting behind almost all the doors.Really it was a pleasing experience.It means most of them seemed to be familiar with her.Some with their morning and evening smiles when she was on her strides to office and home to and fro.Some without her knowledge they happened to notice her in some locations and in some occasions. Bindhu relaxed to some extent that her discussions about the task would be more comfortable with the familiar persons.Her experience went like this.

   After pressing the calling bell,Some one peeped either through a window or through an ajar door.Smart Bindhu with all her smiles and with all her confidence voice,"Hello I am Mrs Bindhu Aravind,residing at (Indicating her residence and her occupation).I would like to be part with your family ladies productive area.With your permission shall I take five minutes of your precious time Sir/Madam".Her polite request with her all smiling face and  her confident approach with her smartness let her get a chance to step into their place.

   Once Bindhu was allowed to step into their place,she expressed hearty thanks then handed over those forms one by one to her decided locality and requested them,"Sir/madam I will come back the day after tomorrow this time.I would be pleased if I get back the filled forms in time.Definitely it will bring good to your family ladies and your family children.Have faith in me and have faith in you.God may bless us all.Thanks a lot for your precious 'Time Donation'.See you".

  Bindhu's majestic entry and majestic leaving made the residents to have some faith on her.No doubt,their filled forms would be ready on that stipulated day for Bindhu. As Bindhu expected,she was able to get the most of the filled forms in time.Some forgotten forms were made to reach her place the following days.She promised them to come again to meet them with in a week, after going through the filled forms for some analysis.

   With the help of Clara and Mary,Bindhu analysed it thoroughly.Almost all ladies in every family seemed to be educated to certain level.It means it would be easy to handle them.More over their specialized area was amazing.Mostly Retired teachers and working teachers including Yoga teachers.The next level seemed to be having a good rapport with sewing machines and some were good at some kind of arts.i.e making different,attractive and beautiful things with some discarded products,Fabric painting, Pot painting,assembling some simple articles in a colored  or plain glass case of various shape and size.One are two interior decorators. Many working in the I.T.Companies.Some in Government part at various offices and at various level. web designer was also there.A handful of persons seemed to be good at knitting related arts.A Ph.d degree holder was also there.Most of the women seemed to be interested in cuisine related art and reading books.Some interested in some games.Five lawyer  girl students.One registered as specialist in Origami.Fantastic!

    The three women sorted out the filled forms and rearranged them with their related categories of talents. There was a big and broad smile enlightened on Bindhu's face.Clara and Mary got the point from Bindhu's smile and they also delighted.The only thing to do for everyone's welfare of this fifty three families including Bindhu,Clara and Mary was,to bring the available resources together to transfer the resources' potential energy into powerful kinetic energy.They had no idea about the mindset of these fifty residents whether they were ready to work under one roof.But nothing to loose."Let us create an opportunity for them to know about their own resources and how it can utilized skillfully for the up-gradation of every one's self esteem".The three positive powered ladies decided.

   The next day,Bindhu visited the same residents once again and told,"I am so pleased to see your fifty filled forms with your good enthusiasm.This enthusiasm would be the first step to get into our good  venture.Your forms lead me to so many discoveries and inventions.I will let you know about all these on coming Sunday exactly at 4:05 p.m.meeting at my residence.I expect you all for the meeting without fail to enter our new world which we are going to create by the grace of God.You all are expected to be there in time I mean 4:05.p.m to put forward your precious ideas,opinions and suggestions to make this venture a successful one".Bindhu sensed the positive vibrations through the ladies readiness to participate the meeting.

   Before went to bed on the same day,Bindhu did invite God for the same meeting to guide them.Definitely He would register his presence.Because sincere prayers are always answered.

                                                 
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The Power-The woman Power-Part-VII

   The two families's Gentlemen, I mean Bindhu's and Clara's family gentlemen were very very ready for all ground work.They wanted to know about  their family ladies's project and its field background on which they intended to set their feet.So they had been waiting for their call in the  midst of their office work.Day by day there were more opportunities were made naturally to bring the two families closer and closer.

   It is true that,in a get together meeting only,either in our own place or in some other place we are made to be known about the real positive and negative sides of our own family members.At one's own place,with routine atmosphere it is really not possible to know about the strengths and weaknesses of our own family members.Alphonse and Victor and Aravind were no doubt being good spectators and observers, realized the internal and external strength of their family ladies.In one way or the other the powerful ladies had the capability to bring all matters under their direct supervision.

   From morning to evening,from children to elders of the family at home and at her office related work, the positive powered ladies have the ability to bring win win position to both donor and receiver of instructions and suggestions.Depending on the atmosphere at home and at work place their  persistent observations can be realized through their constant and timely reminders,orders,warnings,encouragements,some good suggestions,their direct involvements, all these  spectacular abilities they have make the things get done,some times with warm words and some times with war of words.Definitely this will bring a good harmony within her family and within her team at her working place. Really this is a big lesson that every man  has to learn from every positive powered woman at home as well as at working place.This is a humble suggestion for all men who are dwelling in the in the 100% wrong Zone as "I am the boss" zone.

   It means by trying to belittle these positive powered ladies,you egoistic men are bringing your own self-esteem to the ground level and some times below the ground level. When the positive powered ladies, get the right recognition at the right time by the right person for the right reason,she has the capability to make their home as well as their working place a HEAVEN.But all these years,Victor's family failed to observe the positive powers of their family ladies which were made to be hidden by the family men's useless ego as well as by the family ladies useless patience.Victor and his father both felt very bad about it.Now with the help of Bindhu they are going to make their ladies to sit in the front row.God may bless them.

   For ladies,both at home and at her working place her prime need is, her beloved family's whole hearty support by all means.Her family's this concrete support is very very important for her.Those great valuable support helps her to balance her dual role as well as bring elegance in both roles.Now the time was ripe for both the families to create an opportunity for these positive powered ladies to transfer their potential energy into the kinetic energy.i.e the available big stored energy would be made to get into action.

   When these three ladies were blessed with their families's whole support by all means,they had many rounds of discussions.At last Mary and Clara decided to leave everything to Bindhu who to their faith,the good initiator.This is the final round of talk. Bindhu announced."Friends!I will let you know about my opinion.We are blessed with everything.Why don't we extend our blessings to other women who are in real need of some help and guidance to make their days as productive days with their own potential energy.What I would like to say is why don't we people try for a drive in our own locality?".

   Mary and Clara were amused.In fact they didn't get the point."Sorry Bindhu dear!We really didn't get the point".Mary told.Then she turned to Clara asked"Did we dear!?".Clara was also in the same amusement. Bindhu continued,""I will make my point clear.When I first met Clara,as I knew her potential energy, I did like to do something for the welfare of her state.I did my best which in turn led us to have an opportunity to get into a venture of our choice.What I do mean is, Good Intention with the respective positive courage will help us to bring some good things into action.Clara is the fore runner for all these creative features.".

    Bindhu tried her best to make her version as easy as possible.She continued again,"At present scenario,as the joint family system is not in practice due to various reasons. Even with this advanced technology, the big problem for positive powered married women is that,they are unable to pursue their loving carrier at the cost of their family business.Because the lack of support from their birth place as well as from their destined place due to various reasons compel these sort of women to resort to a single role as the fancy"Home Maker".with life time regrets even though they are capable of pursuing their dual roles with the same passion".

    In our locality itself a handful of under graduate degree holders and post graduate degree holders and even a Doctor of philosophy degree holder are there with some sort of frustrations.These women pathetically made to be a home maker to take care of their family and their children, leaving behind their carrier which once an adorable one before their marriage.When I did tap Clara's talented side once again,she has brought us to this height.i.e She has made a chance to bring faith of our family gentlemen on us.So as a team,we shall utilize the available resources within us.Let us implement the same strategy with some tactic in our own locality first.i.e tap the potential energy  of our locality".

   Bindhu turned to Mary and told,"In fact this was the suggestion, first proposed by Clara during my first visit to your home.It means Clara disclosed herself on that day that with simple friend like me with her good faith on me,she was ready to step into a big venture.I do want to help her.So, I feel by creating some opportunities to make these sort of  ladies to understand that when their potential energy,in other words they themselves of different kind of resources which are to be made to join one by one together,I do hope that we can expect spectacular results.Hope I have made myself clear".Yes really Bindhu made it very clear.

   Later,the three giant ladies,prepared the lists of some of their known reliable ladies within their families and outside their families to lead this venture in various part of their locality with genuine involvement.Then they discussed where and when this wonderful venture to be started and the strategies to be covered and so on. Final decision had been taken with some final touch-ups to discuss their rejoicing project with their life partners.


                                                      GOD MAY BLESS THEM

                                                                              To be continued..............

The Power-The Woman Power.Part VI

   It was a lazy Sunday evening for Bindhu's family.If any Sunday which has some outgoing refreshing program it would be a brisk Sunday.Otherwise it would be made to be a dull Sunday by some indoor activities with some indoor games. Aravind was the first member and the only member who took bath in the morning itself especially before break-fast as usual.The other three were as mud smudging pigs playing carom-board with the clean Aravind. Very often Bindhu checked the time.She intended to wind up exactly at 5 to make themselves as clean as Aravind and to prepare some evening snacks.Moreover their home needs some cleaning.Before taking bath she decided to do the cleaning with the help of kids. Aravind declared that he was not in a position to help these filthy pigs as he was being as clean as SWAN.Even his various sort of teasing didn't bring any expected result on those dirty pigs to get a good shower.

    Bindhu announced,"Look little ones!This is going to be the final game.You good girl and you good boy are going to help Mom in some cleaning.After taking bath Mom is going to prepare your favorite snacks with hot cup of delicious coffee".Sending a warning signal to Aravind,she said,"Those who are not ready to help Mom in the cleaning process,definitely NO COFFEE AND NO SNACKS for them.The children noticed the false seriousness of their Mom.So they endorsed the resolution of their loving Mom.They turned to their Dad,"Dad!we are going to ask Mom to prepare your favorite snacks.Even if you beg stealthily,we are so sorry.We are not in a position to offer you.Because you know Mom's rules are rules.Better negotiate with Mom". Aravind burst out laughing and hugged his children,"Definitely you two are the perfect heirs of your Mom's Kingdom.I mean Mom's Queen land.All right! tell me about my part of cleaning"."That's good!".The other three approved.

   The door bell rang.The four were stunned.They didn't know what to do.They had no idea about any visitors.So they four and their drawing room were not in any good position to receive the visitors whoever they might be.Glaring at each other,they were not able to move from their standstill position.Among four Bindhu as usual made herself up and headed towards the door.On her way to the door she kept trying in ordering the things to bring some better look to the room to some extent.By the time the second call of the bell knocked them down.With all eagerness the other three were staring at the door. Bindhu opened the door.A very pleasant surprise.Really it was a very pleasant surprise.It was Clara's family.As the famous four were very busy with their play,they were unable to recognize the screeching sound of the halting vehicle.

    For some seconds,the whole house had been experienced the thunderbolt and lightening.Hearty receiving of the visitors is  a heaven.It leads to hearty sharing and caring,no matter whether the guest and host are matching each other for any matter.When every thing and every one settled down,Bindhu extended her apology to the guests for their own state and for the state of their drawing room,Victor laughed."It doesn't matter Madam!You must understand my enjoyment of transferring from a museum to a real home".This was the beautiful answer from Victor.Yes! for the past these years,Victor's house was certainly a museum.Big silence,unnatural movements of the inmates with bigger rooms with bigger things and so on.

    When Bindhu was about to started cleaning in jet speed,again Victor interrupted."No more hurry Madam! With your permission we are going out to have our coffee and dinner.Is it all right for you people?".A polite request from Victor.Before Aravind and Bindhu could say anything their children jumped up and down,"You are welcome uncle!We will go! We will go!Let us get ready in another half-an-hour".They acted as decision making elders.They brought some play things to their friends to entertain them.Without turning their face to their parents to avoid their opinions, they darted to their room. Guffaw echoed the whole house. Hearty smiling faces and hearty laughing faces are always beautiful. Bindhu observed.She noticed Clara's family.It seemed to so healthy.Physically as well as mentally. Bindhu could not help admiring her friend's family."Thank God for everything".God received her thanks with his all smile.

    The two families seated comfortably in a comfort giving restaurant.When they received their menu card,Bindhu's children were busy with the things what Clara's children bought for them.Some engineering tools through which we can make ladder,house,bridge,fish and even dinosaur and so many things with the given flexible structures of different types and colors.More than that,some puzzles and a big ball and some tiny vehicles and some other things they didn't even go through those things.

   Some discussions were going on between the elders.Victor turned to Bindhu,"Madam!your better-half Aravind told me that you ladies are on some venture.What ever it is!",after some pause Victor continued,"My humble request is,let my Mom be in.I do hope that my loving Mom also has some talents like my Clara which is to be given a chance to explore.Hope you have no objection over it.I promise our whole family's moral and physical and financial supports are always with you.I would like to know about your opinion Madam!".

   Victor's views through his clear expressions was a real booster to Bindhu and Clara and even to Clara's mother-in-law,Mary.She glared at her son with such a fondness as if her son Victor was a new born baby.While Mary was watching her son with all her love,her husband Alphonse watching Mary with a new pleased look.His body language expressed his readiness with his whole and all support to his sweet-heart. Every one now turned their face towards Bindhu.

   Bindhu at once came to a decision.She disclosed her mind."When two true friends join their hands together wholly,they can bring miracles.No doubt.When all these true friends as family friends,join together as one and well it will be possible to bring miracles after miracles by the grace of Almighty.She clasped Clara's hand,and told Victor,"Sir,now we have become family friends. your and my families's heavenly support and hearty involvement,have made me to think that we three ladies must get into some venture.Let us discuss over this matter.Thanks a lot for you for being a kind initiator for a venture for our family ladies.Let God bless us all!".              
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The Power-The woman Power-Part V

   After every dust settled down at Victor's home,one night before the bed time,with a placid mind,he went to his parents room."Dad!Mom!May I come in?"The door was open.Victor noticed that his parents were still roaming in that same shell shocked words uttered by their grand son.They looked as if they had drained all their energy.His mother closed the book,which was on her lap.His father pressed the mute button of the television.Their weary look was unbearable.

   For past some days,the deep silence had been reigning that big highly sophisticated very modern house.The children felt the difference between the usual silence and this unusual silence.They shrunk themselves further more.They still didn't understand why their words uttered at their friend's birth day party brought such an unusual silence in the whole house.Like every thing"I wish I had this;I wish I had that:" like,the little boy told so.But they were sure that unlike other wishes, something was wrong in this wish.So they also maintained the same threatening silence to their capability.

   Victor took his place opposite to his parents.They looked at their son with the same silence."Dad!I think we both did a big mistake without our knowledge.i.e.Keeping 100% faith on the money.You and I did have very strong faith on this money magic.But through our children version, it is the right time to reconsider our faith on money.I think we have been in the false hope that we can make every thing possible with this money magic. But the children have made us to understand that some spectacular meaningful,real"TOUCH MY HEART" things are there beyond this money magic.In fact,for them this money matter is not a magic at all.I feel that they want to be in the real natural world and also want us to be in the same world for the sake of every one.Thank God!They have opened our eyes.Now I feel every one have to have their own space.But unfortunately we in the family, having vast space of their own which seems to be a big hindrance to our reach out to any one else in the family.I think this is the right time to rectify our mistakes I mean your and my mistakes i.e"I AM THE BOSS MISTAKE".

   Victors's father nodded his head as as an approval.His mother didn't say any thing.She was just listening.Victor continued,"Dad! I intend to arrange an Europe tour for you and Mom for some days with the help of our European friends.On your return,I will be happy if I know that you have made your space to that optimum level through which Mom can reach out to you comfortably.By the time,I will try my best here to make our house a home.Will it be all right for you Dad?His father stared at him for some seconds.Then he uttered."It seems to be good idea my son!.I will consult this with your mother and let you know our decision in the morning".This answer brought a broad smile on Victor's face.Because for the first time Victor's father was going to consult something with his mother.Third generation has brought such a strong impact on its first generation.

   Victor came back to his room.His children were already settled in their bed.It was around eleven.Clara was watching some event on television.The rule of the house for bed time was, for children it is 9 and for elders, it is 10.But to day it is going to be eleven.Clara was in good amusement.There may be some important discussion between father and son.But will it be possible in the bed time and in her parents-in-law's bed room?.She, as usual didn't ask any thing.

   Victor, unusually opened the balcony door of their bed room and sat on the chair for a while.From there,he was watching Clara.Even after noticing his unusual activities Clara didn't ask anything.She was in some confusion whether it would be all right to go to bed or to wait for her husband to settle in the bed.She turned her eyes from television to Victor.She couldn't understand any thing from his staring.She fixed her eyes again on television.After a while,he got in and into the rest room.He came back and closed the door of the balcony and slipped into his night dress.Clara switched off the television,and she was about to get up.Before she got  up,she felt Victor's hand around her neck.For a second she was taken aback.Then the same hand with the help of other hand turned her towards him.For the first time in her married life,she felt a human touch a real human touch.Not that usual mechanical touch.

   Clara looked into Victor eyes.No! she was not able to believe it.It was not as stern as usual.It was melting.Victor's hands started playing hide and seek with some parts of her body with such a tenderness.Some inexplicable  magic was on its way.Clara,for the first time felt so cozy in her heart throb's hands..She wished to plunge into this coziness for ever.Victor tried his best to send her wholly into him through his no room for even air hug and led her to the bed.That night was the real 'First Night' for both Victor and Clara.There, for the first time the concrete beginning of  'THE GIVE AND TAKE POLICY' registered its grandeur elegantly.

                                                                            To be continued.............

The power-The women power-Part IV

   After two or three days of the Aravind's family function,a call from the reception for Aravind  that he had a visitor named Victor. Aravind could understand who was the visitor.He informed this to his cabin and headed towards the reception.It was around three in the evening.

    At the reception counter, the receptionist gestured him towards the direction where Victor was waiting.He seemed to be a bit worried.On seeing Aravind, Victor extending his hand for a warm hand shake,"Hello Aravind!How do you do?Hope you are fine with your lovely family".Feeling that warmth what Victor intended to extend,Aravind gave back the same warmth to Victor through his gentle hand shake replied,"Fine!Thank you!And what about you and your nice family".With a wry smile,"No nice at all.On that day when my children disclosed their unhappiness of being in the family like us,we all were shattered.Whatever efforts you and your family made to even the situation,there always a pricking thorn is there in the whole family.Any how, our heart thanks a lot to you and your family's efforts, especially your wife's efforts to make our family to understand what a real happiness means.By the by I would like to seek your appointment  for some discussion.I really wouldn't like to take much of your precious time,but ......"."No problem at all".Aravind kept his hand on Victor's shoulder,"If you can wait for another ten minutes I will wind up my today's work with the help of my colleagues".

   "Let us have some coffee".Aravind invited Victor to his office cafeteria."If you don't mind let us walk the distance.On the way,we have our coffee in any restaurant".Victor suggested."It would be nice then".Aravind joined him.On the way,they had been discussing about some general topics.. Aravind could understand that Victor had been in some confusion.They reached  a restaurant and selected a corner table for their convenience.

   Aravind waited for Victor to start.They ordered for some hot pagodas with some coffee.Victor started coming out of his mind and heart."Look Aravind!Truly speaking,our family's visit to your place,really gave us a real comfort.Till then, myself and my father were of the opinion that money has the power to bring everything to us.My father learned this wrong lesson from his father who in turn keeps teaching this useless lesson till the date of your family function.But once my son uttered that word"I WISH WE WERE BORN IN YOUR FAMILY".we all as a whole shattered".Aravind didn't say anything.He was doing the good job of listening.Many times,listening is the need of the hour.

   Coffee arrived with those hot Pagodas.After having a sip of coffee with hot Pagodas,Victor seemed to be a bit clear to open his mind."I think,our money scares Clara's family who in turn might have scared Clara, who maintained a distance from our family.We fools!We thought that it was a good respect she was showing towards us.But actually,Clara distanced herself from the fools who are always running after money without having any knowledge of human feelings.I didn't see any real happiness in her as I had seen in her collage photos and at your family function.It is worse, even after all these years of our wedding lock, our family have no knowledge about her sports and music part.She didn't utter any word about this.I think,myself and my father don't see our home as a home but just another office.Now I feel very bad when I think about my mother.Like Clara, till the date,she didn't express any of her desires and passions.Like dolls they both are acting.I sense the cruelty we, I mean myself and my father thrust upon them.As my children,they I mean my mother and my wife might feel  "WISH WE WERE DESTINED TO SOME OTHER PLACE WHERE A REAL HAPPINESS MEANS".With a heavy sigh Victor closed his eyes.

   Aravind placed his hand on Victor's,"It is all right Victor!Regret doesn't hold any water.With our knowledge or without our knowledge,we do mistakes.Many times big mistakes like this.Let bygones be bygones.When our observations are in right angle,some occasions open our inner door.We can make it up.No more remorse.In the beginning I was also in the same opinion that women must be at our service.But Bindhu whipped me on that night I mean our first night.Still I can hear her clear and concrete voice,"Look Aravind!I feel "I am the boss nature" in you.Even after our life partnership if you are in the same opinion,please wipe it out.You men may think that as we women are leaving behind all our blood relations and our familiar places for the sake of you and your family you can treat us as an refugee.But you men are wrong.Totally wrong.Please understand we women are the fittest of the survival.We women can survive any where under any circumstances.One woman can play any role of a family".

   "Leaving those senseless women who really have no knowledge about their positive power,I am talking about the women who have a real knowledge about their positive power.I am one such woman.I and my family deserve your's and your family's love and respect,the same I and my family will reciprocate.You may ask how you deserve it?".

   1."My family send her loving daughter all alone to her destined place as a life partner for someone else with a good faith on their daughter's destined place inmates.Never fail their faith.And they have faith on the moral values they have inculcated in the mind of their loving daughter.With those learned moral values they  have the same faith that their daughter will be a role model to her owned family as a successful life partner and to her next generation as a successful mother".

   2.With those learned moral values I am doing my best to transfer my strangers as my friends through which I can bring some peaceful and happy atmosphere in our family . My only motto is to make our family to feel as we all are one under the same roof wherever we are and whatever occupation we are involved with.I will try my best to bridge all our relations.I expect the same from you and your family.You understand this first and then help your family to understand this beautiful concept.If any move against this concept in any form of indifference from your side "I WILL KILL YOU".Hope I have made myself clear".

   3."I want to stand on my own feet.If you can help me in this regard, it will be well and good.Otherwise I will find something to match with my nature and with my educational qualification.All right! That is all from my side.Would you like to say anything from your side?".

    Bewildered Victor,"Dude what was your response?".He couldn't believe his ears with that concrete message through Aravind's wife Bindhu on behalf of every sensible woman on earth.With a big smile,"What is the need for any response?.When my life partner set her foot in my place,with a guarantee," I will help you to make your place as our place and make your family as our family by creating a cozy atmosphere and in return she persuaded me with the same guarantee of creating cozy atmosphere with her family means it is nothing else but that is the "GIVE AND TAKE POLICY"principle.I didn't find any wrong in it.In fact I am very proud of my wife as she tactically put a big full stop to any sort of 'EGO CLASH' in the beginning itself.I mean,she nipped all the negative things in the bud which may be expected from her destined place"

  "And till the date she is keeping up her promises and in turn she makes me to keep my promises.Now a gentle breeze is prevailing in our family.When Bindhu senses any unwanted, unnecessary changes in the gentleness of the breeze,for the sake of our family,she knows where and when and why and whom and how to stop the ugly factors which try to place its ugly hands on our family.I mean including her birth place.When the time ripe she restart every thing as if nothing had happened."In my family, we are four siblings.In her family, their number is six.We both families have a good rapport with each other with the help of Bindhu,my wife's strong construction of the cozy family bridge.In fact Victor!I am blessed with a nice and sensible life partner who in turn with her concrete diplomatic steps she keeps reminding us what a happy family means".

   Now Victor could clearly understood that there are miles to go to honor his life partner Clara through whom he ought to honor all his roles.Like Bindhu,his better half Clara must be a sensible life partner.For the sake of the family she has been sacrificing so many beautiful things from her side it seemed.He felt so guilt.Then he turned to Aravind,"Dude I would like to honor all my roles.Any useful suggestions from your side?.Pat came the reply."Unconditional support to our family oriented, sensible, positive powered ladies.I think they have some plans on their new venture"."Is it?What is it?".Pacifying the over enthusiastic Victor, with a good hearty laugh "Let them disclose themselves".Aravind paved a new way for Victor.
                                                                                 
                                                                                                    To be continued........  

The power - The woman power-Part III

   It was the pleasant evening for Bindhu's family where the birth day party was about to start.The family of the birth day baby,were so excited as if everyone of the family was celebrating their own birth day.That is the family.To make every family member to feel as "You are a VIP" to our family.The children's friends chirping in with different color of dresses with different hair style with different age group.The children,reminding the butterflies really an eye candy for everyone.As dawn and dusk,childhood is soooooooooo......pleasant but it seems, we people have no idea about the importance our own childhood as well as the childhood of our own children.

    Then elders entering as chatter box,really registering their visit to explicit their real concern over Bindhu's family.It was 4.15.Everything  was ready.The children checked whether all their invited friends were present.Surprisingly,the friends of Bindhu and Aravind were also turned up with their spouses in time.But no trace of Clara's family.In fact Bindhu secretly borrowed a guitar for Clara to play something on this occasion.But her mind kept telling Clara dare enough to bring her family as a gesture of respect for the kind invitation put forward by her good friend.

   There was a hustle and bustle outside. Bindhu with an expectant look hurried out.Yes!It was Clara with her family. Bindhu was so happy.Recognition  in any sort is really good.By the time Aravind made his presence to accompany his better-half to invite her good friend's family.Clara's family seemed to be very satisfied with the hearty welcome of their host especially Victor's and his father's egos seemed to be rejoicing.After the formalities of introduction in general,Bindhu with the permission of the visitors,she took Clara to the guest room upstairs, leaving Clara's family to her husband's care.

   To Clara astonishment,Bindhu made her to sit for a while,then came back with a Guitar.Clara was totally amused."Bindhu! what is this?You also play Guitar?When did you learn?I have no idea about all these amusements"."No more words.Because no more time.For your information my knowledge about Guitar is Zero.I borrowed this for your sake.We have only thirty minutes left.Practice with your favorite song that you used play on our collage thrilling days".

   Bewildered Clara,"Bindhu! my dear friend! this is not possible for the shorter period.Nearly ten years passed with no more interaction with my favorite instrument".Bindhu dragged a nearby chair and seated opposite to Clara.Keeping one hand on her friend's shoulder and with the other hand lifting her friends chin,"Look!my dear friend!Let your hair down.Have a total faith on you through Him(God).No doubt He will connect your string to your tongue.Of course,practice makes perfection.But your passion of playing your finger on your favorite instrument with your favorite song would bring perfection.With no more hesitation go ahead.I will come back to fetch you sooner.You are a blessed child.Believe it". Bindhu closed the door behind her and hurried down to the ground flour.

   Bindhu noticed that Clara's family seemed to be in some better comfort. Bindhu heaved a sigh of relief.Then she continued her last minute supervision for the function.Everyone was ready to take part in the function.

   It was five to five.Every one was standing around the table on which the birth day baby's birth day cake was placed in the middle of some floral arrangements.Clara's family was looking for Clara.Excited Bindhu went back to upstairs to fetch Clara back.When they both were stepping down,where Clara was with a guitar there was a big question mark on every one's face including Clara's family.

   Bindhu announced."A pleasing news for every one.My friend Mrs.Clara is going to play her favorite song on the Guitar for us as one more feast".Hearty and exciting clapping sound every where.When the sound of music(clapping) came to a halt Bindhu announced."Now time is up. Let us start our party".There was hustle and bustle every where especially in Clara's family.Every one started peering at Clara with a warm smile.Clara felt as if she was in some other world which really taking her to a cozy atmosphere,which she had never felt for quite a longer period. The party started.

   The birth day baby enjoyed thoroughly with all sorts of excitement as she was the center of attention.When every one started having cake of their share after the birth day baby had her mouthful share, the presents were on their row.During all this excitements,Bindhu kept watching Clara and Clara seemed to be uploading and building the confidence within her, that gave Bindhu a sigh of relief.

   Every one was settled down comfortably to lend their ears to the music on Guitar.Music is some spectacular way of transport, that takes us to a  spectacular world which couldn't be explained and as some feelings it could only be experienced.Clara was also no exception.She started melting into the Guitar through her favorite song.She was catching up all those elapsed golden days of music.Gradually she had been immersing in her music.Her passion on her music world had been bringing perfection to her fingers. She was singing i.e.she was flying as if she was being herself  as a real free bird high in the blue sky.The lingering of her music started invading every one's heart, present there and indeed they were also very ready to loose that (Heart) territory for this heavenly music.

   The heavenly music was over.It took some seconds to every one to get back to their own world.Clara's children grabbing Bindhu's children and darted towards Clara, and hugged her and were heartily saying"Mom!simply great! You are an angel!Definitely you are going to teach us how to play Guitar.It must be a promise from your side".They hugged her tightly and said,"We are very proud of you Mom!"Clara hugged them back with soft thanks along with Bindhu's children.By this time the children became good friends to each other.Clara's experience was totally different.Through those various sorts of appreciations through various modes, was really great to feel.Some sort of peace and its elegance, she felt was so pleasant.Praising Clara's wonderful music every one was moving for their dinner.

   Bindhu's family and Clara's family made to sit together to have their dinner.Before took her seat,Bindhu went to supervise whether the dinner and the guests were on their track.Being satisfied with the arrangements,she came back to join her family and her friend's family. After having all these fun for quite some time,Bindhu sensed some good comfort in Clara's family.Bindhu,"Come on everybody!We shall have our dinner".Then she turned to Clara's children "How was your friend's birth day party"?Pat came the reply from Clara's son,


                                      "I wish we were born in your family"                                                                                                                  
                                                                                                   to be continued............